https://cfonseca160.com/2020/05/22/pet-peeve-of-the-day/

Do you (as I) find that some men (some women similarly) simply aren’t satisfied enough with impressing and satisfying their own wife or girlfriend (privately); and, that they go to great lengths to impress those belonging to others, through their public life, preoccupations, or life’s work (publicly)? With rare exceptions to the “rule”, these are people with a grudge and hatred for their brother – this pet peeve of mine is shared with you today.